ramblings...

Dear Family,

It has been very long since someone write in this page. Since everyone has their own blog to write on. Feel like this place been neglected. Pity.

I hope none of us here feel neglected too. In term of attention and love. We do love each other don't we?

Maybe I am not a good person to tell you this. But we are all just a mere human (except Aman who still believes that he is a demiGod). Maybe I can share something, that hopefully can be a motivation to all of us. We sometimes, or most of the times i would say, need to have to motivate ourselves, rejuvenate our souls, everyday so that we can face the day with full maximum self.


1) live life like no tomorrow. Not to say that you have to party like crazy or do lots of misdemeanor because you think you will die tomorrow. What am trying to tell is that, lets say, (simpang malaikat 44), you know that you will die tomorrow (touch wood), what will you do? anything that you want to do before that? any confession? any last thing to do?
ok, maybe that is too drastic.
lets think this. lets try to list down the things you want to do before you turn 30. (do you watched FRIENDS the episode where everyone turns 30? Phoebe's list of what she wanted to do)...the list must not be that unrealistic for you to execute. Even though as simple as these, for example:-

The lists of things i want to do before i turn 30
1) i want to buy a new phone
2) i want to donate my stuffs
3) i want to colour my hair red
4) i want to say hi to my neighbour next morning
5) i want to walk to work everyday
6) i want to eat durian at least once
7) travel around the world

example. once you have these, you somehow have your goal in life. you may say that, nahh, it would be boring. my life now are bound with rules and committments. but think again. you are wrong. If you really want to make this all real, you will try your best to do all of these. once you strike one of them (meaning you have accomplished them), you will feel a great satisfaction in you and of course you deserve a pat on your back. weird? Naah? try it.

2) Success.
Everyone defines the word success differently. Even though you are not good academically means that you cannot be successful. Example, Tom Cruise, he is an actor right? you know him. He couldn't read. He has this dyslexia. See how rich is he and happy is he (he does look happy). But this shouldn't be the reason for you not to study hard. (then you tell ibu and babah, "oh, kak wani said, academically is not important, you can be successful without it, so no need to study la", I will slap you on the butt)...What i'm trying to say is. every single one of us has different potential to be success. maybe not academically. maybe you have a hidden talent. maybe you are more of a skill person. Find yourself. Find the thing you best at. Then determine your own definition of successful. That will then determine your definition of happy in your life


So my dearest. Think about it.
Whatever you do (definitely no crime involved), we will support each other.
I wish every one of us will find what are we searching for.

Good Luck


Lurvess
Wanibaka